Men and Women

There are many obvious differences between men and women but one main difference that I have been thinking about is how we each deal with problems in our lives. This is what I've come up with: (with input from friends and my great mom)

Women: Girls tend to have a LOT of "problems" all the time. Many are very insignificant. Yet, it doesn't matter what the so called problem is, there is one thing almost all of us do. We talk about it. We talk and talk and talk and talk until we can't talk no more! And then everything is fine. As soon as we just let it all out, it's almost as if the problem is solved. We don't necessarily need advice (unless asked for) and we don't need someone to fix our problems for us. This leads me into men...



Men: Guys may not have as many "problems" as women seem to but they do have one thing to do when something comes up. Fix it. They do whatever they can to get the problem out of the way, usually alone if at all possible. They don't want to talk about it or even think about it too much, they just do whatever it takes to get said conflict out of the way.

Point is, Men and Women do things very different and I think if we could all just figure that out then there would be SOOO much less conflict in all types of relationships.


Advice: Men, girls don't always need something to be fixed so much as they need someone to just listen occasionally. Yes we do have girlfriends for that a lot of the time but it's nice to know that you're willing to listen too. And Women, guys always want to fix things. Let them sometimes and if they don't come to you with every little problem, be okay with it because they will sort things out on their own. They will usually come to you when they need you.
Those are my thoughts for the day! Until next time.. :)